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Friday, October 22, 2010

Familyhappy

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mx9ocubowMs&feature=player_embedded




新加坡用網路行銷來「促婚」, 3 分鐘寡婦廣告引發瘋狂討論

五月初,新加坡那邊出了一則很特別的廣告,在電視上播出後,引起極大的爭議,各位可以點上面參考一下。這則廣告是由新加坡國家級的「社區發展部」所拍攝( Ministry of Community Development, Youth and Sports )它是一則 「支持婚姻」( pro-marriage )的廣告 ,據說兩年前新加坡曾有一場市調,顯示許多適婚的新加坡年輕人仍在待婚中,因為找不到完美對象。

這則「促婚影片」只有 3 分鐘又 2 秒:主角是一位印度裔太太,悼念著她剛死去的華裔老公。她的悼詞和大家預期不同,她竟然當著全體親友描述著她老公在床上如何的「打鼾」和「放屁」,還當場模仿這些聲音!如果老公還活著,應該會窘得想找一個洞鑽吧。
這部影片的開始,司儀說:「李太太(即那位寡婦),妳應該有些話想說。」
這位太太上台了,全場靜默。
「今天,我不是要來讚美的,我不會說他有多好,因為很多人都已經說了。今天我想和大家分享一些可能讓大家比較不自在的事。」
她說,「我想先從他在床上的表現說起。」
台下觀眾眼神都是問號,看著她繼續說--
「你們都有碰過,早上啟動汽車引擎啟不動的狀況嗎?」
當場她學了發動引擎的聲音,但聽起來根本就是打鼾聲。這位寡婦學得嘴巴都歪了一邊了,這樣鼾了兩趟,然後幽幽的說:「 well ,大衛(她的老公)的打鼾,完全像是這樣。」
大家開始笑了,鏡頭轉到她的女兒,表情顯然有點怪,大概是不解為何媽媽要說這件事?有些老夫妻也一邊笑一邊微皺眉頭,這場合好像說這種事不太對吧?
「但,打鼾只是開始,」寡婦繼續說:「他,也會 …… 放屁!」
,好像好多人都有類似的經驗呢。「有些晚上,他放屁放得太大聲,還會被自己驚醒!」
全場更是會意的笑了,她說,「大衛會驚慌的問,那 …… 那是什麼聲音?」
「這時候我會說,親愛的,是隔壁的老狗在放屁啦,放心繼續睡吧!」鏡頭轉到好幾個太太笑得摀嘴,坐在旁邊的老公面露尷尬。
台上的寡婦,此時語氣一轉。
「你會覺得,這很好笑是嗎?」她緩緩的說,「不過,當大衛真的病得很重時,這些聲音至少讓我知道,我的大衛『仍然活著』。」
她轉頭望向大衛的遺照,哽咽了:「現在 …… 我終於再也無法在睡前聽到這些聲音 …… 。」

全場有如冰凝。

「 到生命的最後, 」鏡頭轉向這位寡婦孤單的身驅,看到她緩緩的說。 「 總是這些小小的事情,讓我們永遠記得。 」( In the end, it ’ s these small things that you remember. ) 「是這些小小的 不完美』,一起組成生命的『完美』。 」( It ’ s these little imperfections that make them perfect for you. )

鏡頭轉向她的兒子和女兒,兒子大約高中年紀,女兒是初中年紀,他們看著台上的母親,專心聽著媽媽說話。

「所以我想告訴我的子女,有一天,你也能找到你們生命中的伴侶,他們會像你爸爸在我眼中一樣『不完美得很美』。」
( So, to my beautiful children: One day, you too find yourself life partners, who are as BEAUTIFULLY IMPERFECT as your father was to me. )
她講完後,彷彿如釋重負,回到一個仍要照顧小孩的媽媽,收起悲傷,堅強起來,擁抱她的小孩。觀禮的全都沒有痛哭失聲,竟都看著前方,那是一種吃驚,這些文字的重量竟然這麼重的飄在空中、壓在心裡。這三分鐘的片也旋及走到尾聲,最後,這則廣告的結束詞是──
「 Family 」。
中文版,則是一個──「家」字。

>這則極震撼的廣告片,是由一位來自馬來西亞女導演 Yasmin Ahmad 所拍攝。在新加坡引發了很大的爭議。沒人是完美的, 所謂的真正的愛情就是接受你伴侶的不完美。 在喪禮上,女主角講了一段話,明明是在講一則很平常的事,卻經過了音樂與台詞與鏡頭的鋪陳,導引出一連串看不見的「弦外之音」,最後它給了一個字「 Family 」作結尾。


Wednesday, October 13, 2010

認識了一個有趣的朋友,可能之前並沒有遇過這種人happy

接觸了文化上的不同,也認真探討了一個問題。

不管別人是否有機心,閒談一下高興就好,沒有必要想太多吧

哈哈,的確盡興左一晚!laughing 

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something should be dumped!come on,dont even think abt it!

looking forward for my half-term holiday!!!9days xxx

going to hv aspicy and yummy hotpot with my lovely mates!!!!!!!xxx

weather here is getting cold><

take care to all guys in HK! 

 


Tuesday, October 05, 2010

1month in England-Nottingham already :)

It's a totally different lifestyle for me!

everyday,work repeats but I am satisfied with this,actually,I love this!heart

lessons@sch>cooking(rare for me XD)>doing washing>fruit time>chatting/computer time>study>bed timehappy

But,I always miss u guys xxx!!!my internet here is nearly rubbish=.=always hv a problem

looking forward for the goose fair this week@@!!!haha

 


Monday, October 19, 2009

好概歎好諷刺好困惑

好深刻的體會

渺小的我唯有盡人事而安於天命

向前走.前路會有什麼?


Saturday, October 17, 2009

copy from tai
http://www.quizbox.com/personality/test82.aspx 

Your view on yourself:

You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.

The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.

Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You prefer to get to know a person very well before deciding whether you will commit to the relationship.

The seriousness of your love:

Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.

Your views on education

Education is very important in life. You want to study hard and learn as much as you can.

The right job for you:

You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.

How do you view success:

You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.

What are you most afraid of:

You are concerned about your image and the way others see you. This means that you try very hard to be accepted by other people. It's time for you to believe in who you are, not what you wear.

Who is your true self:

You like privacy very much because you enjoy spending time with your own thoughts. You like to disappear when you cannot find solutions to your own problems, but you would feel better if you learned to share your thoughts with a person you trust.



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